He needed me. Scott texted me telling me all that happened to him recently and I knew. I knew he needed me. He needed a release as much as I did. I had said that I was going to deny myself orgasm that weekend. But - he needed me. Was I mentally prepared to please him? That would be selfish thinking - of course it isn’t about me. It is about pleasing him. And he really needed me. So - of course I followed every direction to a tee.
Wednesday, February 19, 2014
Technically, the events of this post came before those of my last post I Needed Him. But I think that was a stronger piece, so I led with it. Also related, is this funny Twitter exchange about that one night in December.
Tuesday, February 18, 2014
After I wrote and posted my latest blog post I Needed Him, I rememebered tweeting about it that night. I went back into my timeline and found it. Too funny!
Sunday, February 16, 2014
It was such a cold and blustery Saturday. I had only been back from my vacation for a week but it felt like I did not even get a break at all. I did a lot of soul searching and thinking during that time, but I still had not come up with all of my decisions. Scott knew I was out of town and texted me a few times while I was there. I think he could tell I was going to my “introspective” place. Then, that Saturday, he texted me telling me he would be in my area if I wanted him to stop by. I got giddy. I really wanted to see him, but I knew the weather was only getting worse and I did not want him to have to drive home in the ice. He, as he always does, made me state what I wanted. He does not allow me to say things like “whatever you would like.” He makes me demand my needs. That’s very different for me as a submissive, but he is still very dominant with me.
Sunday, February 9, 2014
Sinful Sunday is all about the image. It's not a secret that the weather has been OH SO COLD here in Baltimore this winter. I mean, it IS winter, so we should be expecting cold and snow. But I do believe it hasn't lasted this long in a while, and it has been a lot colder than recent winters. In cold weather, I love to curl up, snuggle in, grab a glass of wine or hot cider, and nest. I read, catch up on movies, and basically turn into more of a hermit than I usually am. It's always better to be able to snuggle with someone, but alas, I do not have a snuggle partner. So, instead, I sometimes curl up in my scoodie.
Thursday, February 6, 2014
Anal sex is many things to many people, but above most things among heterosexuals, it is usually considered taboo. If he does it right, and she enjoys it, she will probably allow him to do it again (bonus game). However, if he rushes into it, and things go wrong, he can probably forget about ever trying it again with her. He can usually just pray that eventually she will think it was a fluke or he will hope that she forgets how bad it was the first time around. So, what is it about anal sex that makes us so uncomfortable?
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
Today, we explore the thrilling experiences of sexual role playing. This type of sexual play is often very freeing for partners as you get to create a character, step outside of your comfort zone, and explore one of the most highly sexual organs we possess – our minds. Most of the time, sex just happens without any forethought or planning. We get down to the dirty when we are aroused and we make the most of the moment. With role playing, it is important to discuss and communicate with one another beforehand to set the scene, make plans, and discover each other’s boundaries and desires. It forces us to take our time and really enjoy the arousal and pleasure.
Thursday, December 19, 2013
Contrary to popualr belief, I am not constantly bombarded with emails and messages. But I do get some questions and inquiries from readers, either through email, DMs on Twitter, or even on Kik messages (SexInBmore if you feel like connecting). Keep asking your questions and sending your topic suggestions and I will fully satisfy you here (or at least try my hardest – I aim to please). Just remember to leave comments here on this page as well – don’t be shy!
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