Wednesday, April 27, 2011

My Love For Cult Icons Pays Off!

A couple of weeks ago, I decided to expand who I was following on Twitter. Originally, I mainly followed people with similar sexual interests or people who emailed me about my blog. But then I started finding more people in my area that had fun and interesting links and stories, so I decided to start following them. I was not sure how some people would react, being followed by a feed that is mostly about sex and things that are not necessarily in the mainstream, but I took my chances. 
 
After a long Friday day at work, I decided to stay in for the night and catch up on my DVR. While reading my Twitter stream, I saw a very cool tweet:

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

"I Don't Submit To Jackasses"

So, I wrote about how I decided to embark on the search for a new Daddy. Since this was my first time actually looking for an actual Daddy/Master/Dom, I really had no idea what to expect. Apparently, I should have known better. If looking for a vanilla boyfriend/partner was torture (which it was bad enough) but it was 20xs worse when men only saw me as an object. I really appreciate all of the support that others have been giving me here (Pretty Primal, Blossom, my old neighbor MP, etc.), on Twitter (seanyboyNJ, Maj_G, Dazz_C, ThanyasTweets, etc.), and even just through emails. One great submissive girl even wrote about her thoughts on my experience so far on her blog (definitely an insightful and fun must read – Here Come the Jackasses!).

As for what I look for in a Dominant, I have been thinking a lot more about this since I started.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

The Search Is On

As I have mentioned in the past couple of posts, I have been contemplating looking for a new Daddy. I have given this a lot of thought and had some great advice from so many of you who read my blog, and tonight I took the first step. I posted a personal ad to begin the process. I even talked things over with J and he wished me the best of luck. He is, of course, not completely enthused with me looking for someone else, but he also wants the best for me.


I sometimes wonder if he is right - am I making a mistake walking away from something that clearly was amazing? Can I kneel in front of someone that isn't him?