Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Who Am I?

I fully intended to write last week, but then, as my friends who follow me on Twitter know, I was stricken with what I dubbed the “creeping sleeping fever death illness” that put me out of commission for about a week. Thanks to the many of you (you know who you are) for the well wishes and checking in on me. I am happy to report I am on the mend and back to attempting to function once again. But, truthfully, I am glad that I didn’t write last week because a comment on my previous post got me thinking a little more. The comment was that I have a long way to go to be a full submissive. I completely agree that I still have a lot to learn as I really haven’t had much experience in this realm I am exploring now. However, I also think that there are many types of submissives and it all can’t come down to right or wrong. What is right for some sexually is not what others may like or prefer. That is one of the parts of this journey that I have found so appealing. So, it made me start to think – if I had to categorize myself, what type of submissive am I?

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Never Say Never

This week in my article at Gutter Magazine, I talked about something that is taboo for many – anal sex. I mainly tried to dispel some of the myths that people assume about this sexual act. But, as I hinted at in the article, there are more mental aspects of anal that come into play in a D/s sexual encounter.