After a while sitting on the sidelines, I tried to start dating again this past summer. As many of you know, if you follow me on Twitter, I'm not afraid to live update a date that has gone awry. Unfortunately for me, that happened all too often. There was the guy who had pictures on his online dating profile that were 5 years old (and looked nothing like that guy I actually met face-to-face). There was the guy who kept talking about his job, his car, how much money he made. Then there was the guy who barely spoke at all, but at the end of the night still tried to hook up. I really felt like my choice to try and put myself out there again was a huge mistake. I almost started to wonder if I was the problem.