Showing posts with label Asked and Answered. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Asked and Answered. Show all posts

Thursday, December 19, 2013

Answering Your Questions – Week 5

Contrary to popualr belief, I am not constantly bombarded with emails and messages. But I do get some questions and inquiries from readers, either through email, DMs on Twitter, or even on Kik messages (SexInBmore if you feel like connecting). Keep asking your questions and sending your topic suggestions and I will fully satisfy you here (or at least try my hardest – I aim to please). Just remember to leave comments here on this page as well – don’t be shy!

Here are some of my latest favorites:

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Answering Your Questions – Week 4

Contrary to popualr belief, I am not constantly bombarded with emails and messages. But I do get some questions and inquiries from readers, either through email, DMs on Twitter, or even on Kik messages (SexInBmore if you feel like connecting). Here are some of my latest favorites:

Thursday, September 8, 2011

No Question Is Obtuse

This question was submitted to me through my Tumblr account anonymously:
This question may seem obtuse but do "submissive" people in a relationship with someone who don't identify as "Dom" ever feel guilty about not taking the lead? Does identifying as submissive, mean that you can't reach climax unless treated that way? I only ask for possible insight into my own relationship which doesn't have defined roles, but some players aren't totally satisfied in the role they are forced to play.

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Answering Your Questions – Week 2

Which would best describe you: 1. Angel on the outside, devil on the inside 2. Devil in and out (and loving every minute of it) 3. Angel in and out (but the horns do come out once in awhile)?

More than likely, I would say number three. Sure I like kinky play and I love sex, but mostly, I am a good girl. Most people probably see me as the stereotypical pretty, nice “girl-next-door” type – which I am. I have to clarify though, contrary to popular belief - nice does NOT equal boring - I am far from it (which I hope you see from reading this blog). Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to show people my more sexual side more publically, or to tell people about my certain sexual escapades. But, for now, and for many of the reasons I have talked about before, it is my closely guarded secret.

Have you ever been tied up when there are several other people watching you and talking about how to and preparing to use you sexually?

Monday, March 28, 2011

Answering Your Questions - Week 1

A couple of weeks ago, I signed up for a fun online Q & A site called Formspring. You can ask your "friends" questions (with your name or anonymously) and then see the answers. Feel free to go there and ask away and once a week I will post some of the questions and answers here.

What's the first thing that you usually notice about someone you meet?
Usually their eyes. I think eyes can tell a lot about a person. Their intentions, their level of honesty, the willingness to be open, etc. A good smile also helps win me over, but I definitely love looking people right in the eye :)

What's the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning?
The first thing? Probably "Just a few more minutes! That dream was getting so hot!"

When you fail so hard that you want to crawl up in a ball and die, how does Daddy help you to feel better?
Well, I have only had one Daddy for a short time. And it did happen once last summer. He let me have a little bit of time to fall apart and cry. But then he curled up behind me and held me in bed. He ran his fingers through my hair and reassured me that I was doing my best and that was what he wanted. He and I actually wrote about it here.
But, now that we are not together, the strength to pick myself back up has to come from inside me. And that has been tough since it is only recent that we parted ways. But I keep the faith that all the lessons he taught me, I can also keep close and remember when I find someone else.

What is the one thing sexually you have not tried, afraid to try and have watched and it intrigues you?
I am sure there are lots of things out there I haven't tried that I would like to. The one thing I think about lately is being with two men at the same time. My most recent D talked about sharing me and making me please other men for his pleasure, but we never got there. I think I would have really enjoyed doing that for him and being able to please more than one man at a time.

If you could erase a single thing from your memory bank, what would it be?
I am not sure that I would. Everything we experience, even bad things, shape who we are. And, if I didn't remember or the bad thing that happened, I would fear I might actually repeat it. At least if I remember the bad along with the good, as long as I have learned from everything, I think it is best to experience it all, and then some!

Once a sub/slave has experienced D/s, do you think she could go back to a vanilla lifestyle, or will something always be missing?
A great question, but not one I feel I have enough experience with to answer as well as I would like. I am fairly new to discovering this submissive side to myself. I am enjoying every minute of it and definitely enjoy exploring and pushing limits I never knew I could. It is also intense on me emotionally, but it makes everything that much more satisfying. My lifestyle is pretty vanilla, but do I really think I could go back to a more vanilla sex life? I think if I had to, maybe? But I also believe that this is truly who I was meant to be and even in a more vanilla sex life, parts would just seep through. I know I would miss the erotic nature of it all if I wasn't engaging in a D/s sexual relationship.

I've had a crush on you for awhile but I couldn't admit it.. I took a picture of your name written on my body and put it here: [insert the random website here] sign up and search for SubLilGirl guess who i am.
Umm .. although I appreciate the flattery, I find it highly doubtful that you truly know who I am and even MORE doubtful that you wrote my name on your body. Plus - I am just not the type to blindly click on random links. But thanks for the thoughts ;)